(500) Hours of Somber

In regard to the perfect girl that one devises for oneself in his dream. She can never be perfect even if she exists with all the characteristics that you would want her to have. This is because you as a person, are perpetually learning, and changing. Unless she is dynamic she cannot be perfect, because even the girl that supposedly was without flaw yesteryear might not be what you desire now. Furthermore, even if she is dynamic, she would need to be so in a perfectly congruent manner, aligned to your desires. There is, however, a catch. She must be so without your knowing. For it is clear that in some aspects of relations, the pursuit of a woman induces certain emotions – enjoyable emotions – that one does not find once he has her. This is due to the comfort of certainty, him knowing that she is his. If that perfect girl was so flawless that you lose any fear of losing her, you will become bored, because then, despite her dynamic nature, the relationship will become static, and plateau at a stagnation….

~ by davenewworld on November 12, 2009.